Show Notes
Episode 53. How Women Heal from Sexual Sin w/ Rachael Killackey
Episode 53. How Women Heal from Sexual Sin w/ Rachael Killackey
"There is a God close to us who calls us by name and says:
'Rise, cease your tears, because I have come to free you!'"
~ Pope Francis
Pornography, masturbation, sexual sin, and sexual addiction are not only problems for men.
In Episode 53, Kenna and guest Rachael Killackey confront the sensitive yet crucial topic of sexual sin and addiction among women through the lens of faith and mental health. The discussion addresses the complexities of female sexuality, the impact of "purity culture", and the essential role of women sharing and understanding each other's stories. The episode offers insights into the relational nature of women's hearts, the importance of parenting with both moral formation and humble openness, and the necessity of holistic faith-filled sexual education for children. Rachael also joyfully shares her journey of founding Magdala Ministries, the first of its kind in the Catholic Church, to support women struggling with sexual addiction.
This beautiful episode offers a step toward hope and healing for women burdened by sexual sin, and clarity for those who want to better love & support the women in their lives. Join the conversation and take the next step toward freedom and wholeness!
Rachael Killackey is the founder & executive director of Magdala Ministries and a Colorado native (depending on your definition of native). She earned her bachelors and masters degrees in Theology from Ave Maria University, and since first sharing her testimony in college, Rachael has had the privilege of hearing dozens of beautiful stories of healing from sexual addiction, and is pursuing certification in sexual addiction therapy. Rachael married her husband, Tommy, in 2021. They now live in Tampa, FL, with their daughter, where they enjoy the beach (almost) as much as they enjoy the mountains. Her book, Love in Recovery, is available through Ave Maria Press.
Show Notes
Magdala Ministries and the Magdala Blog
We have gendered the problem of lust & pornography (i.e., pornography is a problem for men).
We should have gendered the solution instead (i.e., solutions & resources designed specifically for men & others designed specifically for women).
“Lust is a human problem, but it should take, the solution and the healing should take a masculine and a feminine form.”
“The destiny of every woman is to be a bride and mother.”
St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross (Edith Stein)
The heart of a woman is relational and directed toward open and loving relationships, which is the antithesis of pornography.
For children, it’s important to identify the sinful nature of pornography & lust, but also to balance it with openness and mercy to help children respond to sin in a healthy & holy way
Challenge By Choice
Praying with Mary Magdalene for freedom
Mary Magdalene was a woman deeply entrenched in a variety of sins, and after being healed and forgiven she became the “apostle to the Apostles”
How does Mary Magdalene’s witness help you frame your own sinfulness, your hope in Christ, and the freedom that Jesus offers you?
Reflection Questions
For personal reflection or group discussion
What is one specific thing that stuck with you from this conversation?
Do you think woman have been excluded from discussions around sexual sin? Why or why not?
What impact have you seen "purity culture" have on Catholic approaches to sex?
How can parents help prepare their children to confront pornography in a healthy and resilient way?
What kind of freedom has the Lord offered you in the face of sin? What does that say about his love for you?